
Today I carried
the heaviest thing
a mother is ever
asked to carry—
Down the aisle
of the longest
path I’ve ever
been asked to walk.
From the back
to the front
of the church
where we sang songs of praise
together just days before,
you sitting snugly on my lap.
My steps,
like old woman shuffles
aged 100 years in a day—
unsteady and painstakingly
s l o w.
My tears trailed
like a leaky faucet
that will never
be fixed,
a freshly flooded
river of grief and love.
My wailing a new
book of psalms,
as I carried you
in the very over-priced box,
that forever holds
the remains of
your perfect
little-man body,
in your blue
and green-footed
dinosaur pajamas.
I pressed my hand
firmly onto the
outside of the box,
lingering,
lingering,
lingering—
as if I pressed hard
enough I’d touch your
warm baby-soft skin again,
as if I waited long enough
you’d jump out alive
like a jack-in-the-box,
grab my lingering hand,
and shake me awake from
this wretched nightmare—
As if I hobbled slowly enough,
you’d clasp my open hand tightly
on the outside of that morbid box
that held you today,
where just yesterday
my arms held you softly with love—
Today I carried
the heaviest thing
a mother is ever
asked to carry—
Down the aisle
of the longest
path I’ve ever
been asked to walk.
From the back to the front
of the church,
and with a primal sound
that defied all words—
I placed you,
along with my own
decomposing remains,
forever at the altar,
forever to be buried,
five feet underground.
ANGELA MILLER is an internationally known writer and speaker on grief and loss. She is the best-selling author of You Are the Mother of All Mothers, and the founder and executive director of the award-winning grief organization, A Bed For My Heart. After the death of her son, Angela founded A Bed For My Heart in 2013, and has given people around the world a compassionate and supportive community to express their grief and honor their children. Her article, “7 Things I’ve Learned Since the Loss of My Child,” has been shared over one million times. Angela’s website ABedForMyHeart.com has almost two million visitors per year, and has become a trusted resource for grieving families worldwide. She has been featured in People, Psychology Today, Huffington Post, Blog Talk Radio, Love What Matters, Listen to Your Mother, and more. Angela’s writing has comforted millions of hurting hearts around the world. You Are the Mother of All Mothers is her first book, and is dedicated to grieving mothers everywhere.
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